The discovery of the female G-spot caused a real sensation at the time, although there is still no certainty that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about such a male zone, but every man definitely has one, and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women who have to search for a mystery area literally at random, guys don't have to guess about its location. The point "G" in men, behind which the well-known prostate is hidden, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch, it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut, and in a moment of excitement it swells.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). In some men, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your husband or girlfriend to stroke the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate feels like an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men enjoy stroking the G-spot?
Prostate stimulation sensations can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally - to tears), for others it helps maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so you don't deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact in the process pumps more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and more pleasurable.
- The strong rhythmic pressure mimics the contraction process of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot at the moment of maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells to its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or imperceptible, you should wait a little. If at the time of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in a given man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it is better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis, or return to exploring the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is embarrassment or uncertainty in the partner, the first attempt may turn out to be unsuccessful. But it is possible that further explorations will bring more pleasure if one can truly break free. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, a small vibrator), which are available in a wide variety in adult stores. You can caress the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more. You should move in the direction of the pubis. You can find the tender point "g" from the tubercle of the rectal wall. After that, you should carefully massage him, observing the reaction of the man.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - orally or manually. The man will be happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can alternate with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve gliding and give your partner more pleasure. You should massage the area with the pad of your finger using circular motions and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulsate. To increase the pleasure, you need to affect him in time with the contractions. Adherents of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone was called the "million dollar place" and sexologists developed special techniques for delaying ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is stroking the G-spot good for men?
In fact, stimulation of the area can be compared to a gentle massage of the prostate. Only the latter is performed in a medical facility and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and shame. Stroking the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring more intimate nuances into them.
As for the health benefits, regular stroking of the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that there are currently no pathologies on this side and the massage itself is performed carefully, without excessive pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to affect the prostate area if the man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urination disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. If in doubt, it is optimal to use mild oral stimulation, except for anal and manual massage of the G-spot.